Sex Education: The Importance of it

Author: Amrita Persaud Kamrudeen

Sex education has been an infamous topic of debate for some time now. It is not talked about enough. There is this negative connotation when it comes to this topic, not only on the world stage, but it trickles down further into religion, community, culture, etc.

Let’s try to understand first what sex education is. Information and skills allow people to make the best decisions for themselves and their relationships. That is the simple answer, but we all know this topic is much more complex.

In the Caribbean culture and community, in some cases, it is not a topic that is discussed openly. How can it be when the mention of a menstrual cycle is sometimes still talked about in a hush-hush manner? (Topic for another time)

ICB asked ourselves why sex education is not widely talked about in Caribbean culture and community. Is it the shame surrounding the word “SEX” or the lack of information? Is it only because sex is not to be pleasurable for both men and women, could it be that only men can discuss matters of sex, or is it just a taboo subject? We were stumped because it could be one of those reasons or all of them and more, which is a shame!

The importance of sex education in homes and schools needs to be discussed. It’s either the bare minimum or nothing is being said.

The era in which we live in currently is vastly different from ten years ago. We have evolved sexually, and there is a NEED for comprehensive sex education. It will have a ripple effect, leading to a better understanding of gender sexuality and lowering the rates of homophobia, bullying, sexual assault, child sexual abuse, and more.

It starts with a conversation and provides the necessary tools for educators, parents, and caregivers to have the appropriate conversation when needed.

It is not as black and white, but a start has to be made. With changing times, this is necessary! We have to keep in mind that educating individuals on sex does not encourage sexual behaviors or tell them how to do it; it informs them of the risks, allowing them a safe space to ask questions, giving them the correct information, which, as we all hope will lead them to make the right decisions when it comes to their sexuality and sex life.

We do hope that this sparks a conversation positively.